• fwdbias@lemm.ee
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    9 days ago

    I have been unable to convince my spouse despite 9 years of trying. Really sad because we had two good options but chose to stick it out because of family (I say to hell with them but don’t have a veto proof majority there).

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      9 days ago

      Can you put something in place for when things inevitably deteriorate?

      If I were you, I’d be applying for visas I think, or maybe just preparing a visa application if it’s too costly to actually apply for one.