How would you describe your genitalia? Are you confident about it, or if not, why not?

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  • Majorllama@lemmy.world
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    4 days ago

    Above average, but nothing to write home about.

    As long as my partners are satisfied I am happy with the tools my genetics gave me.

    Confidence high. Primarily because most of my exes apparently rate me highly. On more than one occasion a friend of an ex has hit me up specifically because they heard the way my ex talked about me. I know that reads like the biggest r/ihavesex bullshit in the universe but it has happened enough times for me to notice the pattern.

  • Lemon376Unpadded@lemmynsfw.com
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    3 days ago

    I think I have a very standard cock. It’s straight, uncut, and a decent size. My balls are much the same, although my right testicle rests further forward than the left.

    I’m confident enough about it. Wish I was a little bit thicker but can’t do much about that.

  • RBWellsV23@lemmynsfw.com
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    5 days ago

    I grew up before there were beauty standards for pussies, so yeah, I don’t have any hangups around that. Mom of plenty of kids, and I love mine for surviving that and still giving me so much pleasure. Like, I can’t care about how it looks, it’s been so functional. I know there are women who have trouble getting off and I really never have. Clit so small on the outside I thought it was not a physical thing just an area until I learned some were bigger like “buttons” but that has never gotten in the way, or perhaps is an advantage in some way. Inside and outside lips like what I think of as the normal look, not a tucked away arrangement.

    I’ve had plenty of body hangups over my life but never about the genitals. Everyone’s bits are funny looking and that’s way ok.

    • Keepthoseeyeslockedonmine@kinkycats.orgOP
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      5 days ago

      @RBWellsV23 you talk about yours beautifully and confidently. I don’t have any beauty standards for pussies, they are all beautiful. Their beauty is in their changeability and malleability, and of course their responsiveness. I guess the same as a cock becoming erect and sticky with precum, there’s something beautiful about a pussy swelling full of blood, ripening, lips parting a little, supersensitised so a touch of that clit sends a jolt and it flutters and tightens as I push inside 😍

  • loveshame@lemmynsfw.com
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    5 days ago

    My crotch is known to the haggard denizens of the margins of civilization as a mythic beast whose furious bloodlust is channeled only by the future position of Saturn. Legions of imperial forces have been reduced to a broken wake—an omen—of burned and twisted armor; this path of wreckage is the only pattern. Kings, prophets, wizards, tacticians, and metaphysicians have failed to predict the vastness of the legendary devastation. Death herself has remained a shimmering silhouette on the horizon. The only relevant limit is the sanity of the beholder.

  • HotCoupleSD1959@lemmynsfw.com
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    4 days ago

    I’m a bit self conscious about my penis because it’s very curved to the left, but my gf loves it, and it’s quite thick and the curvature helps me reach her G-spot in some angles. Still, I think My dick would look larger if it was completely straight, but I’m okay with what nature gave me. Not too big but not small either

  • Rai@lemmy.dbzer0.com
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    5 days ago

    I’ve always felt excellent about my bits! Absolutely lovely. I’ve never been picky about my partners’ bits in the past, but during The Reveal I had ages ago with my Forever Partner, I was stunned at how perfect their bits are, too.

  • instructions_unclear92@lemmynsfw.com
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    5 days ago

    I think I would have to call my penis “fine.” I do wish I wasn’t circumcised, though. As far as confidence, I would say overall yes. I’m more concerned with knowing how to use it than with the hardware itself.

  • sporkyspig@lemmynsfw.com
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    5 days ago

    When I was younger I was really self conscious since I am uncircumcised in the US. I have never had any complaints from sexual partners though, which is really all that matters.

  • TheVoiceDude@lemmynsfw.com
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    4 days ago

    I don’t have the world’s largest cock by any stretch of the term, but I like to think that it’s at least big enough and has some nice shape to it. When I was a young teen I was very envious of other men with massive cocks featured in both gay and straight porn, (though mostly gay porn because that’s often where you see the most impressive ones). I remember wanting to try penis pumps and other enlargement techniques to get it bigger, mostly because I just wanted to have a cock that was as beautiful as the ones I’d seen in porn. Plus, nothing feels better than being able to grip your massively hard cock as a man (especially if you love cocks like I do). I would be fine with maybe an extra inch or two, but I’m happy with what I do have. I’ve taken an aphrodisiac before that made me grow an extra inch or so and made me super girthy too! I would do that a hundred more times even just to admire how big and beautiful it looks! LOL