• Kualdir@feddit.nl
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    16 days ago

    I’m not trans but I hate this as well 😭 my beard grows uneven so I can’t even leave it on if I wanted to

    Meanwhile my hairline loses land faster than the netherlands would if they didn’t build dams

    • Blazingtransfem98@discuss.online
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      16 days ago

      I’m lucky I don’t have the hair thinning problem. The beard sucks though, I always hated having a beard. It’s one of the first signs looking back that I wasn’t anywhere near as cis as I thought I was.

      • Kualdir@feddit.nl
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        16 days ago

        I’ve only lived here for a few months still learning, thanks for the correction I’m learning!

        • Thelsim@sh.itjust.works
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          16 days ago

          Oh wow, I didn’t know that. Welcome!
          How are you finding it so far?
          I hope you’ll have a good time living here :)

          • Kualdir@feddit.nl
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            16 days ago

            Moved from just over the border (Belgium) so not a huuuuge change in life but liking it here! Actually signing tomorrow to buy an appartement so here to stay :p

            The only thing I got a heart attack about was my health insurance costs being about 14x higher than Belgium but more net salary made up for it xD

            • Thelsim@sh.itjust.works
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              14 days ago

              That’s not much of a culture shock, that’s for sure :) Still, I hope you’ll enjoy your new home.

              And yes, health insurance isn’t cheap. I mean it isn’t US levels, but I wouldn’t mind if it was a bit cheaper :)

              • Kualdir@feddit.nl
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                14 days ago

                Its mostly the little language differences (je/jij instead of ge/gij is my most painful one) but that’s minimal haha

                Thanks! We’ll see how it goes in the long run I guess, no plans on returning anytime soon tho

                Yeahh, a high monthly cost + a deductible is quite insane