So one of my sexual “to do” items has been to try some breast milk… straight from the source. The only downside is not having any friends pregnant or that could entertain it. I see a lot of posts online about it but any suggestions for how to follow through with that? I realize that’s almost there with “how do I get laid” but this is a bit more niche.

      • FistingEnthusiast@lemmynsfw.comEnglish
        7·
        18 days ago

        Fetlife is a weird place

        I’m not particularly active there, partly because I am not single, but also because of the aforementioned weirdness

        So much depends on where you live. When I was in the heart of a huge city, it was very different from the small place where I live now

        Be careful with things that can identify you, the world can be surprisingly small, and the kink community extremely so

        • ramble81@lemmynsfw.comOPEnglish
          2·
          4 days ago

          So browsing around it for a bit and the biggest problem I see is the search sucks. Looked at Lacation and got 120k profiles with no way to filter it. Even with the groups there’s no way of finding a share group in my city.

          • FistingEnthusiast@lemmynsfw.comEnglish
            1·
            4 days ago

            Yeah, they achieve a lot given that very few people pay to use them

            There are definitely ways to refine searches

            Keep hunting and good luck!

  • FistingEnthusiast@lemmynsfw.comEnglish
    4·
    17 days ago

    I just have to throw it out there, that while this is relatively small potatoes in the kink world, be prepared for the reality to not live up to a long-held dream

    Explore and enjoy, but whatever you do, make sure that you’re doing it with a person who will treat the experience with the respect that it deserves, and that you deserve

    Many a wonderful experience with something new has been ruined by rushing, the wrong person, a transactional encounter, or just bad luck

    Go forth and nuzzle, and good luck to you

  • FistingEnthusiast@lemmynsfw.comEnglish
    4·
    18 days ago

    I second Fetlife

    I had a thing with a woman who was lactating and she loved it

    It wasn’t overly my thing, but it was definitely hers

    • ramble81@lemmynsfw.comOPEnglish
      1·
      4 days ago

      How did you find them? Biggest thing I’m seeing is the search sucks. Found one person, literally on the other side of the world.

  • DavidDoesLemmy@lemmynsfw.comEnglish
    4·
    17 days ago

    I tried it with a friend at a festival. It was okay. Didn’t have a strong taste. Many new mums have a partner so if you want it to be a sexual thing, you might have to contend with that.