and I’m seeing a young guy who is sexy af and i totally feel like a teenager. And i feel blessed that i am experiencing this and I can tell my husband about it. I just need to say it.

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    You only have one life and if the man concerned in the situation is happy and supportive about it, just go for it and be happy

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    Update: we just had another magical date. We went for a workout together and then breakfast. Talking about relationships, sex, consent, trust.

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        How do you deal with that age difference? I have a crush (gym crush) that is around 14 years younger than me. However, I don’t approach him and I am quite apprehensive of doing so because of the age difference. We do say “hi” to each other and he does seem somewhat interested in talking to me.

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          Well, in our case there is no weirdness because of the age gap. We share many things in how we see life and we love being together, so that’s that.

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    Update: we had another date. It was kind of a beach date so we for really close, physically. We held hands, touched each other’s skin. We also talked about fears and boundaries. We talked about sex. We got emotional.

    We know we’re living something special, and I think that the key is that both of us have partners and have a very open and calm approach to this. There is no rush, there are no expectations, no intent of being the one but being friends, close friends, that kiss and may end up in bed. That kind of friends.