AcidSmiley [she/her]

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Cake day: March 15th, 2021

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  • imperial boss guy (I suck at names)

    Partagaz. He scares the shit out of me bc he is an imperial guy avoiding all the things that hamper irl fascists, like falling for your own propaganda, becoming overzealous, being an anti-intellectual dingus to begin with or expecting underlings to sucker up to you and sugar-coat everything. Where the rest of the Empire are space nazis, this guy could be space Kissinger. Utterly evil, but also dangerously competent at what he’s doing.





  • You laugh, but this hits very close to home when your crush starts a conversation about linux distros for programming her model trains and then you vent about it and your gal pal enters the chat to say that she plans installing a dual boot system and which distro she should use for that and then your ex tells you about that vintage French computer she bought that’s somehow linked to transfem culture deep lore. Like, i’m specifically dating the arts and humanities nerds to avoid this kind of stuff because i understand nothing about it and it still keeps happening.








  • Trans women are also affected by baldness and as somebody who’s close friends with several who suffer massively from that particular fact, it’s kinda gross to have to read this. Cis women who suffer from alopecia will also be treated very differently than a bald man.

    What we’re talking about here is body shaming. It’s not ok, it’s particularly not appropriate “workplace banter”, but we already have a term for it and it’s definitely not gender-based harassment. Gender-based harassment relies on a gendered power hierarchy. Gendered power hierarchies in our society place men above women, cis people above trans people, binary people over nonbinary people, endo people over inter people and gender conforming people over gender nonconforming people. A trans woman being bullied for wearing a wig counts as gender-based harassment when we use that term to encompass transphobia, because people are actively using the characteristic of baldness to invalidate her gender identity and enforce a hierarchy that places trans people below cis people. A cis man being made fun of for being bald is not that. It’s still cruel and not ok, it is way too accepted socially and if it happens in a workplace environment, it’s perfectly appropriate when his coworkers get sanctioned for it because it’s just shitty behavior. But it’s not the same thing as the experiences of women in the workplace in a patriarchal society.