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Cake day: October 23rd, 2023

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  • So I was window shopping and decided to provide examples. These are from the perspective of a man married for 20 years. I’ve spent thousands on garments and toys over the years.

    Vanilla, seasoned married couple

    Could be as simple as a t shirt with nothing under. Just a flash to get started. Usually skipping foreplay or doing just enough to ensure a good time. Lube and toys as needed. (Womanizer/rose does wonders)

    Otherwise blatantly asking for it. Exposing garments that don’t get in the way or are easy to take off.

    Newlyweds, passionate

    More lovey sex. Heavy on affection. Making out. Foreplay. No toys. Oral and fingers for prep. Lube if we have issues.

    Garments would be more coverage and possibly Lacey.

    "Fun" In the mood for something extra.

    Requires Communication before getting the limits down but any type of play would fall here. Spanking, hair pulling, teasing or roleplay.

    I think in addition to the outfit how it’s initiated matters a lot.

    Siductive for pleasing him.
    Bratty for torture.
    Dominant for topping.

    The same outfit can change the tone with a collar or cat ears. Straps, fishnets, cosplay and kink fall here.






  • Anything is a privilege.

    If I had my choice it would be high contrast. Black lace on pale skin does it for me. It’s straight up classy suduction. White also works too.

    For a more wild night theres fishnets, straps or PVC. Red or black the go to colors here. Although hot pink can also work.

    I’ve bought all of the above for the wife and she’s worn it on request, but clearly considers it extra work.

    My dream is to have her wear something that matches the kind of sex she wants that day. So we can just get to it and I can snap into that role. Ranging from treating her softly like a virgin, straight like a seasoned married couple, wild like newlyweds or rough.