Sure but then it’s their call and resolves the if they find out issue.

He’s not 100% normal, you just haven’t experienced the things he cannot process properly or at all, which is likely a lot of higher reasoning… They just don’t affect his day to day, which gives us clues that day to day functioning is very low level and likely mostly autonomous.

You can tell him he should get a second mri that isn’t bound by your rules.

You have a house and 5 people on 60k in Chicago… That’s crazy