Seems like something you’ll need to discuss with her.

Sounds like she may be open to the idea, on some level, but these sorts of things are often bound up in all sorts of complex emotions.

She will likely need to feel like you both can be honest about what changes something like this might mean for your relationship.

It is entirely possible that there are parts of the idea that are appealing, but she would never actually want to act on them.

You will have to talk with her to figure out what she thinks and feels.

They never seem to work for me

Incredible