Getting out of Texas! As of Wednesday I’ll be heading north and leaving the southern US completely.
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hactar42@lemmy.mlto Ask Lemmy@lemmy.world•Divorcees of Lemmy, why did your marriage end?27·11 days agoWe were both in the military and got married at 20 and 19 years old. She got sent to Korea for a year and since I was due to separate I didn’t go with her. She came home to visit after 6 months and something just felt off. The day after she left I was on my computer and noticed some files in the recycle bin. I restored them and found videos of a guy jerking off and talking dirty specifically to her.
So, then I started digging. I got into her email and found all the correspondence with a guy she met in Korea. The crazy thing was the things she was telling him were completely BS. She had basically made up an entirely different life, but with all the same people. I was apparently her asshole brother-in-law. And she came to Texas to buy a house with the “inheritance money” she got from her uncle. Needless to say she had no such uncle or money.
This then got me thinking about stuff she’d told me throughout the years and when I tried to put things together the more they didn’t add up.
So, ultimately I decided to leave her because of the lying. The cheating was bad don’t get me wrong, but the fact that she made up these entire different lives was just too much to come back from.
hactar42@lemmy.mlto Today I Learned@lemmy.world•TIL about Marco Siffredi who died trying to snowboard down EverestEnglish7·17 days agoThis one on K2 was really interesting. It goes in-depth on why K2 is so much more dangerous than Everest and the many failures of the people attempting to be the first to make it to the top.
hactar42@lemmy.mltoMicroblog Memes@lemmy.world•The difference between American and European oligarchsEnglish101·21 days agoThis article may have been created or edited in return for undisclosed payments
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The song is actually a lot deeper than the chorus makes it seem. He actually trying to reason with the Nazi and say, “hey we’re both anti-authoritarian, you’re just a fucking idiot for thinking Nazism is the best way to go about it.”
Punk ain’t no religious cult
Punk means thinkin’ for yourself
You ain’t hardcore, 'cause you spike your hair
When a jock still lives inside your headThis is saying you can’t just dress like a punk and be punk. Punk is an ethos not a uniform.
If you’ve come to fight, get outta here
You ain’t no better than the bouncersSome people see punks and mosh pits and think punks are all violent. But that’s not the case, so don’t come around if you just want to fight.
We ain’t tryin’ to be police
When you ape the cops, it ain’t anarchyBut with that said, they aren’t trying to be the police. They want to dismantle control, not recreate it.
Ten guys jump one, what a man
You fight each other, the police state wins
Stab your backs when you trash our halls
Trash a bank if you’ve got real ballsThis section is basically saying don’t take your anger and aggression out on people. It is the system that got you down, not the other people. Take your rage out on institutions of real power, unless you are too much of a pussy.
You still think swastikas look cool
The real Nazis run your schools
They’re coaches, businessmen and cops
In a real fourth Reich, you’ll be the first to goAs you noted this is pretty straight forward, those you hold up actually hate you. Scary how accurate that still is today.
You’ll be the first to go, you’ll be the first to go
You’ll be the first to go, unless you thinkUse your fucking brain, don’t be a Nazi.
This is all just my interpretation after listening to this song for 30+ years. I’m sure there are other ways of looking at it.
Sadly, it has been going on for pretty much as long as punk has been around, and it doesn’t really have a single contributing factor.
In the US 80s hardcore was made up mainly of white angry teens and young adults. Most weren’t racist but some were. And the low entry of musicianship needed to get into punk made it easy to start a band, so some Nazi bands started forming. The fans of these band thought they would be welcome at other punk shows, but were wrong. That’s why the Dead Kennedy’s wrote the song “Nazi Punk Fuck Off”.
In England skinheads have been around since the 60s but where not the racist skinheads you think of today. It was more of a working class subculture. Oi punk evolved from this subculture, so as fascist started adopting skinhead culture the music came with it. It also doesn’t help that some early punks would wear Nazi symbols to be provocative, even if they didn’t believe in the ideology.
Even in the 90s, when I was a teen and active in the local punk community Nazi’s would show up to a show every now and then. It always ended up with them getting drug outside and getting the shit kicked out of them. Even if they weren’t at the show if there was a sighting of Nazi’s nearby people would go running to kick the shit out of them. Yet, every few months it’s like they expected something else to happen when and would show up again.
My only thought on why this shit is still happening 30-40 years later, is that you have to be a fucking moron to be a Nazi, so it’s not like they would have the best judgement when it comes to where they are welcome.
hactar42@lemmy.mlto Asklemmy@lemmy.ml•What episode/season/movie do you consider as the ending in an otherwise long running franchise, and Why?21·24 days agoTerminator 2 (T2) is a masterclass in combining CGI with practical effect and its ending is a rare cinematic full stop.
The T-1000’s liquid metal form was revolutionary, the morphing effects were cutting-edge in 1991, yet Cameron used them sparingly and only where practical effects couldn’t work. That restraint made the CGI more impactful and has made it so they still hold up 35 years later.
The truck chase through the storm drain, the helicopter flying under an overpass, the Cyberdyne building blowing up; it was all real and you can feel that when you watch the movie. There is no way any movie studio would do that nowadays when they could just CGI giant Michael Bay explosions.
The destruction of Cyberdyne and the Terminators meant the timeline was reset. Judgment Day was averted. The T-800 lowering itself into molten steel is an iconic moment; a machine choosing self-sacrifice for humanity. It’s a perfect final note, not just for the character, but for the franchise. Bringing him back again and again weakens that sacrifice. Any sequel has to undo all of this just to exist. Which is why to this day, I have not watched a single Terminator film after T2.
hactar42@lemmy.mlto Asklemmy@lemmy.ml•[serious] What survival reflexes of your own experience are hard for you to get rid of?9·26 days agoI’m 44 years old and I still can’t stand people standing behind me if I’m sitting down. When I was a kid and I did something wrong my dad would sit me at the table while he walked around yelling at me and every so often he would walk behind me and slap the back of my head.
To this day I still get so uncomfortable that I have to get up or ask the person to move. Even if it’s my own kids, I can’t stand it.
hactar42@lemmy.mlto Ask Lemmy@lemmy.world•What are some good open world games/series that would be nice to take a walk thru from start to finish?1·1 month agoJust make sure to skip walking through Tall Tree, Roanoke Ridge, and Bluewater Marsh.
hactar42@lemmy.mlto Not The Onion@lemmy.world•Texas Democrats Help Pass Bill Letting Fetuses Count for the HOV LaneEnglish7·1 month agoWhat HOV lanes? They’ve turned every HOV into a managed toll lane.
If the Wedding Singer came out today it would be set in 2012
Back when every HP printer worked on the LaserJet 4P driver that was less than 1MB.
6, I spent too much time in the sun today and triggered a migraine. Laying in a dark room waiting on the imitrex to kick in.
hactar42@lemmy.mlto [Migrated, see pinned post] Casual Conversation @lemm.ee•Looking for suggestions of female fronted / all women heavy musicEnglish7·2 months agoTo add to this already awesome list
- The Gits
- Bad Cop Bad Cop
- Amyl and the Sniffers
hactar42@lemmy.mlto Asklemmy@lemmy.ml•Would you return something because the power indicator LED is too bright?5·2 months agoI bought a keyboard from ThinkGeek that had an LED that would hit me right in the eye. A little piece of tape and that keyboard served me well for years.
hactar42@lemmy.mlto Ask Lemmy@lemmy.world•What profound statement has stuck with you over the years?37·2 months agoThe major problem—one of the major problems, for there are several—one of the many major problems with governing people is that of whom you get to do it; or rather of who manages to get people to let them do it to them.
To summarize: it is a well-known fact that those people who must want to rule people are, ipso facto, those least suited to do it.
To summarize the summary: anyone who is capable of getting themselves made President should on no account be allowed to do the job.Douglas Adams, The Restaurant at the End of the Universe
hactar42@lemmy.mltoMicroblog Memes@lemmy.world•What were people doing before high fives??English19·2 months agoThe term has been around meaning a fool or idiot. Also the fish. The Beastie Boys were the first to use it to refer to the haircut.
hactar42@lemmy.mltoMicroblog Memes@lemmy.world•What were people doing before high fives??English37·2 months agoThe term mullet was coined by the Beastie Boys in 1994
hactar42@lemmy.mlto And Finally...@feddit.uk•Tourists upset after discovering Abbey Road is 'just a road'5·2 months agoOne of my favorite past times at places like this is watching people almost get hit by cars not realizing these are active roads. I’ve seen it there and at Dealey Plaza.
I managed to keep the same pair of sunglasses for nearly 20 years.
I lost them when I was helping my sister move and her mother-in-law mistook them for hers. By the time we figured it out she couldn’t find them.