It really depends on what kind of sub I’m looking for. But the most common traits I want across all different types is an intelligent girl. Not only do I want her to understand orders and rules without being hald-held. A girl who can match with me. Dumb girls are just boring, and the average ones aren’t any much better.

If I want someone to just beat in person, I want a masochist who enjoys being beaten. Someone who wants it hard because I’m known for “swinging for the fences.” I want a body that’s not too skinny, so there’s some padding. Don’t want to break bones. And, let face it, the cuter she is, the better.

If I want someone for IRL service, I want someone smaller and skinnier, one who can easily sit at My feet or fit in a dog crate. I want a girl who’s subservient but playful. A bubbly personality is always fun, but quiet, determined obedience is intoxicating.

Ifvim looking for a girl to own online, I want someone who can text often. I prefer one who will send pics, but it’s not a requirement as long as you don’t set off My Catfish Senses. What she looks like isn’t as important, It’s the vulnerability I want to see. I want someone honest who will open up with Me. Someone who will be clear with her Limits and willing to safeword if the need arises. I tend to be pushy and will poke at vulnerabilities, so I am very clear that I always honor safewords, and they’re never punished. I look for ones whose posts are enjoyable to read and show some vulnerability.