• Skullgrid@lemmy.world
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    11 days ago

    I used to wish I could get a sex CV with references from previous lovers. I strugged to find partners, but must have been doing something right sexually in those relationships.

    • southsamurai@sh.itjust.works
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      10 days ago

      It is a really nice thing to get props from an ex. Sexually, or in other ways. When an ex gives you a glowing review, so to speak, it’s both a relief and a recommendation. See, when you break up, but stay friends, you always wonder if maybe you fucked up. But if they are willing to say that you were great, it just wasn’t a good match for specific reasons that aren’t flaws, just differences in individual needs, it takes that away