DISCLAIMER: this isn’t a substitute for therapy and/or medication. Sometimes therapy isn’t accessible. Sometimes we have a bad week and need to recenter ourselves.
I think we can learn from each other and find methods we didn’t even know about! What’s helpful to another may be ineffective to another, and I think learning about an array of methods would be valuable.
What’s been helpful for me:
- Spending time in nature
- Journaling (I would google journal prompts pertaining to my predicaments)
- Guided meditations on Youtube
- Free worksheets: https://www.therapistaid.com/therapy-worksheets (my therapist who specialized in CBT used some of these during our sessions, I’m glad they’re free)
- Go to bed before 11pm.
- Get up before 8.
- Eat breakfast.
- Go outside every day.
- Exercise
I like the free Yoga with Adrienne videos on YouTube. But there are tons of others out there also. Yoga breathing helps me feel grounded when I’m anxious and stressed.
- Taking walks in nature
- Meditating
- Dragging myself away from the doomscroll box.
- Going out and seeing friends
- Seeing a therapist (OK, that one’s not so low-cost…)
This might be more darkly humorous than you are looking for, but at the onset of WWII I’ve read that many civilians suddenly had a full or partial remission of symptoms for the duration of the war.
Being part of a society in crisis that’s all pulling in the same direction can take your mind off your own problems, at least for a while. Call it the Ozymandias effect?
It’s not enough to hope a war breaks out, but maybe there’s something at the heart of it we can grasp. Maybe what some of us really lack is purpose, or a sense of belonging. These aren’t easy to solve for, but I’m sure it’s worth a look inward.
That’s beautiful and horrifying at the same time
Humanity in a nutshell innit
Adding to the excellent suggestions of others:
- Organising to see friends regularly, even when I don’t feel like it
- Having a “thing” to look forward to (often based around hobbies or upcoming events)
I can only speak for my self but gardening has really helped me find my center