• Ilovethebomb@lemm.ee
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    6 days ago

    The problem I have, is both my work and hobbies/sports are very male dominated, so there’s just not that many opportunities to meet someone.

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      3 days ago

      Yeah I will say I was lucky in my mid twenties in what was available to access around me / my town. I’m now 35 and other than a dog shop that has events where I meet a bunch of people with dogs - I don’t have a lot of the same overlaps but am happily married so it wasn’t the goal on where to settle (more what school do we want etc.)

      I’m just outside of the NYC area and so can find some weird unique thing with a quick train ride attached.

      If you play sports and enjoy training 5k-10k-half marathon groups are a great add to meet like minded people that may have a more favorable split haha. Doesn’t hurt to get the cardio up. But again I would ask - what other interests do you have that are unexplored - that could be interesting to chase. It will be super uncomfortable to take a stab at it. But it’s a win if you do it. A win win if you meet folks while doing it.