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    10 hours ago

    Having spent much of my life around nerds, I do believe he may be dumbfounded by the reactions to his new role in MAGA. Nerds tend to be very good at some things by virtue of hyper-focusing on them, while simultaneously being oblivious to many others. Add to that the fact that his circles and social media feeds must be filled with MAGA ideology and fans for whom he can do no wrong and what you get is someone who’s probably feeling like he’s doing good.

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    12 hours ago

    i have a feeling he does and hes not as much of a clueless naive kid this article insinuates.

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      Awareness is not a binary. He probably has moments when he’s painfully aware of unpopularity e.g. on stage with Chappelle. We all live in some kind of bubble, it would be intolerable not to. His trajectory is common to someone like a rebel leader who becomes a dictator and eventually a tyrant where he’s despised by everyone except the few people around him. They typically recede from public life but never let go of power.

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    I remember something like almost 20 years ago, reading an interview article with him after his first wife? girlfriend? dumped him. I think it was in Rolling Stone. Anyway, the dude was nowhere near as (in)famous as he’s become. And basically the interviewer wrote that Musk seems to want to be loved, but also seems incapable of being lovable. Or something along those lines.

    I’m sure part of it has to do with shitty parenting. I mean, just look at his dad. Same thing with Trump too. For such emotional and psychological damage, I can at least pity both of them. It is sad that impressionable young children in need of love and security don’t receive that from the most important people in their lives. But my pity ends when they take their daddy issues out on literally everyone else around them rather than go to therapy.

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        Yeah, that gross dude.

        Like, we can see in real time the damage done by shitty family life and even the fundamental skewing of an entire worldview and empathy-spectrum due to wealth. And, if these dudes weren’t causing so much damage to everyone around them because of that, I would pity them more. They’re some of the most obvious cases of “hurt people hurt people.” But I am also finite, and so my empathy goes more to the people they are hurting.

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    13 hours ago

    Claims Empathy is bad Is surprised when no one has empathy for him

    I don’t think the problem is a lack of heart, but rather a lack of brain.

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    14 hours ago

    Yes he really does understand why people hate him. He has enough awareness of the effects of his actions to realize that he is destroying people’s lives and his policies are killing people in real numbers. He also has enough awareness to realize that those things don’t make human beings particularly happy.

  • sad_detective_man@lemmy.dbzer0.com
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    21 hours ago

    keeps fucking with people’s lives and futures cuz he thinks it’s a funny joke to do that

    wHy DoEs nOBoDy LiKe mE??? i ThOuHgT i wAs tHe funNY mEmE SAvE-ThE-wOrLD MAn

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    He’s the adult version of that kid we all knew in middle school - the one who was creepy and awkward and desperate to get the cool kids to like him and he talked too much and laughed too loud in a way that sounded like he could tip over into hysteria any second, and the only thing he had going for him was that his family had money, so he always got the latest and coolest games and toys and he’d show them off in the desperate hope that someone would want to play with him but nobody ever did because he was just so desperate and creepy.

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      Some kid pushed him down the stairs and seriously injured him when he was in school, and I don’t blame them. I guess it’s a chicken/egg situation, but I think generally you don’t get pushed down stairs if you aren’t an absolute shit.

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        Some kid pushed him down the stairs and seriously injured him when he was in school

        True story?

        I wouldn’t doubt it.

        I really know very little about Musk’s past in a biographical sense, but as a lifelong student of human nature - both collectively and individually - I know him all too well.

        and I don’t blame them

        Nor do I.

        You can see it in his mannerisms and the look on his face. He was and still is one of those people who’s unjustifiably smug - who’s obnoxiously arrogant in spite of the fact that everyone around him just thinks he’s a loudmouthed asshole. And the secret behind it is that he’s actually desperately insecure and his entire life is bent toward (over)compensating for that.

        He’s obnoxiously smug and arrogant because he has virtually no empathy or understanding of other people, so he doesn’t know how to act to actually appeal to people.

        But he sees other people who do know how to act and who have spent a lifetime earning respect and admiration, and he sees their confidence and that’s what he wants. So, failing to understand even the most basic principles, he jumps right past the earning respect and admiration stage and to the confidence stage, and unable to even pull that off convincingly, he just ends up smug and obnoxious.

        Which makes people dislike him, which leads him to try to compensate, which ends up just being more obnoxious arrogance, which makes people dislike him and 'round and 'round it goes.

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          I don’t know if it’s been confirmed by Musk, but it’s been stated by his (also shithead) dad in an interview:

          He also recalled a time when Elon made a hurtful comment to a schoolmate about his father’s suicide.

          The boy pushed Elon down a staircase at school, injuring him so badly he had to be hospitalised.

          When he heard what had happened, Errol wanted to defend his son.

          “But I realised Elon overstepped the mark with this little boy. I had to drop it,” he said.

          The way he is would be sad if it wasn’t completely self inflicted, and also hurting a lot of other people.

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      fame and wealth are forms of abuse. he never learned why the other kids hated him because his home environment sheltered him from connecting with others

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    It’s a completely self-solvable problem: Don’t act like an awful person.

    I mean, if you have empathy, it’s not really hard to suss out the causes and work to fix them… 🤷🏻‍♂️

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    Thats because Elon is actually an idiot who has lots of people tricked … have you actually heard him try and talk about a subject you happen to be well informed on? Turns out he has no clue and just uses big words and lies alot.

    Elon Musk is the ultimate Dunning-Krueger.

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      He talks well enough to fool someone who doesn’t know shit, with the confidence of someone who knows everything.

      But if you have even a wikipedia level of knowledge, you know he’s talking shit. Nonstop shit.

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      I wouldn’t say he’s an idiot. He’s a narcissist who feigns ignorance in order to pander to his fanboys. I think he’s a lot more dangerous than Trump who is an idiot and also a narcissist.

      Articles like this one are well-meaning but they just end up signal-boosting him and validating his narrative that “left wing media are persecuting him.”

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        So many people love the narrative that they are idiots.

        Congratulations then, the commander in cheif of the worlds most powerful army and the worlds richest man are idiots. The most powerful democratic nation on earth just got usurped by Pinky and The Brain. If you’re so fucking clever and they are so fucking dumb, how could you let this happen?

        They are a lot of things, but stupid isnt one of them.

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          Yeah, this is a very good way of putting it. Musk was born wealthy, but you don’t become the richest man on earth without being good at something.