• MountingSuspicion@reddthat.com
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    7 days ago

    I’ve not used tinder, but I’ve heard good results from people consulting the tinder sub for help with their profile. Also, your first message is pretty important. I’m probably not telling you anything new, but “hey” is only going to get you a response if you’re a Hemsworth brother.

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      7 days ago

      Ask a question that indicates you actually read their profile, and not just, “So you like walking on the beach, huh?”

      Instead, “What beaches are you hitting? Ever been to Gulf Island National Seashore in Gulf Breeze? There are also a few miles of trails on the other side of the highway!”

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        7 days ago

        Hi! I think you might’ve replied to the wrong person. It’s good advice, but I’m not on tinder. I’m in a monogamous long term relationship, so that advice might be more useful for the commenter above me than for me.

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          6 days ago

          I read the comment above as “yes and;” i.e., adding their thought to yours rather than replying directly. But also, mazel tov <3

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            6 days ago

            Yea, valid and possible, just didn’t want their good advice buried an extra comment deep if not intentional. Thanks! Hope everyone can be so lucky!